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DISPATCH | The children yearn for T9s: summer sans smartphone

Vitus Larrieu / The Daily Princetonian

Dispatches at The Prospect are brief reflections from our writers that focus on their experiences during the summer

It started the week before Dean’s Date. I found myself lying in my bed and doomscrolling on Instagram Reels, which I used because I promised myself I wouldn't use TikTok this year (I realize this is a ridiculous justification). I was stuck repeating the same cycle: consuming content, feeling bad about it, promising I would do better next time, and then subconsciously opening Instagram. As I was writing that sentence, I got a notification and then scrolled through Threads for 10 minutes until I remembered that I was writing this article. I clearly had a problem.


Then, I saw an influencer touting a solution: buy a flip phone and disconnect from the constant dopamine rush of a smartphone. This concept was infatuating to me, as it satiated my need to kick my phone addiction while also playing on my nostalgia for a childhood where my only connection to the outside world was a T9 keypad and 100 TracFone minutes. So, a few weeks later when I touched down in my hometown, a shiny green flip phone was waiting for me. 

For a while, it worked. Before, my smartphone was a constant weight in my pocket, a little morsel of escapism that I could pull out whenever I was bored or anxious. Without that crutch, I was forced to interact with my environment. I felt uncomfortable at first but grew to appreciate how grounded and in-the-moment I became. For those moments I felt the need to connect, I was forced to be intentional about my choices. Did I really have enough time to wait for this article to load on a slow 2G network? Was that wait worth it? I began to miss my phone less and enjoy the world more. 

Not everyone had the same positive outlook that I did. My roommate, mid-conversation, texted me, “Why the hell do you not have an iPhone anymore?” My boss expressed how frustrating it was to communicate after her child also switched to a flip phone. My coworker was forced to call my boss at 7 a.m. because I couldn’t access Google Maps or our scheduling platform. For all the inconveniences the phone had caused, I still felt it was worth it to me if it helped me kick my content consumption habit.

As much as I wanted it to work, its effectiveness varied. When I was outside of my house, the flip phone was a great deterrent to distractions. I took it to a TWICE concert in Atlanta, five hours away. I enjoyed the concert more because I wasn’t texting friends or obsessed with getting perfect video angles. When out, I felt more grounded in reality. But back at my house, I fell into my old ways. Soon, I was scrolling through Instagram on my laptop and eating dinner with my iPad like a 7-year-old with inattentive parents. Nothing about my habits improved because I didn't work to change them. I just hoped that using a more restrictive phone would do the hard part for me.

But that's not how things work. What I needed was to fundamentally change how I handled self-control, but I wanted to make a visual sacrifice, to show the world and myself that I could be better without having to disconnect myself from something that I knew was hurting me. Buying a flip phone is easy. Making lasting change is hard. It takes longer than a single summer when I romanticize the idea of being disconnected. I wanted it to be easy, to walk into the sunset, bright green flip phone walking by my side. But that would ignore the reality I lived in. Sure, I could throw away my iPad and laptop, run into the woods and never be seen again. But I would still be the same person, craving more distractions from reality, refusing to live in the moment. 

Recently, friends have been sending me this article about Michael Cera using a flip phone and being unable to join the “Barbie” movie groupchat. Between wellness influencers touting the benefits of less screen time and a growing trend towards rejecting technology, I was convinced that this was my path forward. But the idea that I can just eschew technology instead of building a better relationship with it is silly. Michael Cera can get by without a smartphone because he has an assistant. But it doesn't make sense for everyday people to just give up everything that a smartphone provides. But hey, if you are Michael Cera, go get your flip phone — you might end up happier. Sadly, I am not Michael Cera, so until I get an assistant or some therapy, I don’t see flipping in my future.


Vitus Larrieu is an assistant Podcast editor for the ‘Prince.’

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